Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Weddings, Marriage, Life


October 2015

Mark 10:9 “Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate”.

Later this month, my eldest and only son will be getting married.  He is engaged to a wonderful, beautiful and loving girl, and I have no doubt that their marriage will be long and filled with happiness and love.

Weddings are not the start of a marriage.  The start was when these two first said “Hello” to each other.  What brought them there?  I believe God did.  You see, a godly marriage is one that God acts in, from the very beginning.  The wedding, as a ceremony, confirms God’s act in bringing these two together.  It also signifies God’s future action in keeping the marriage healthy and vibrant.

Christ pointed out how important God saw marriage.  He made this couple so they could come together and create a new life.  That’s what marriage is about, it is a new creation.  Married people go from being “ME”, to being “WE”.  I believe that by trusting in God, He will bring us together with the person we are to share our life’s journey with.

The Wedding though, is just the start.  It is one day in a journey that started some years ago.  It will bring two families together to confirm the viability and integrity of this union, and it will build a convent relationship between the couple and God.   God will join them together, because this couple trusted in God to bring them together. 

I look at this couple preparing this new life, and I reflect on my own journey that has led to 28 years of marriage, and I know God has called us together.

Brothers and Sisters in Christ, permit me an indulgence.   I ask that you lift Gavin and Caitlyn in prayer as they start this most beautiful and wonderful adventure in faith.   I know the wedding will be beautiful.  I pray the marriage to be strong and God focused and that their life together will be long and filled with happiness and wonder.

Thank you

Amen